Good day, RAO, my nameis lola. Am supposed to be married to this guy in December, two months from now, and then my ex shows up. Now am beginning to feel like am not reallyready nfor marriage any more. He has observed it in the way I talk and relate to him.but I don’t know how to tell him that we should hold on with the marriage. I feel its an hasty decision. I don’t know maye its because my ex boyfriend showed up. Reality just seems to be dawning on me