RELATIONSHIP ACADEMY ONLINE TOPICS POSTED ON WEEKLY BASIS WHAT WOULD YOU DO FOR LOVE-a true life tale Femi(not real name), a 33 years old fresh graduate of the Obaafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife, is engaged to Moini(not real name), a graduate from the same university. Their love has lasted three years.they’d planned their future together before graduation and they are prepare for the new life after school. Their love life is what could be referred to as perfect. They’d seem not to have any relationship troubles until now. While speaking with her on phone, moni recounted all the wonderful times she’d had with femi.she confessed he had been his first. Therefore she had never had any dream for the future without him in the picture. She picture heer whole life with femi. She couldn’t bare living life without him. The truth is that she loves femii passionately. Femi, on his own side adores and worships his fiancé. Before now, he had not known ,met or seen any lady that would match the vvirtue of his moni. He simply was a lucky guy. Their three year relationship has been a model one and the envy of every one around them including their families. Noow every thingthey ve built together seems to be crumbilg before their very eyes. Three years after graduation neither of them has been able to secure a job; and femi not wanting to put her through the rigours of pressure from her self, families and peers, had arranged a meeting for them to talk things out only two days back. Moni, had called us at 9pm last night, sobbing profusely on the phone, that the man she had grown to love has called off their relationship o three years because he cant bare her waiting and suffering until his breakthrough comes. The truth is that she ld be 32yrs nex month and it will be wicked of him to keep her waiting when there are thousands of suitors quieging up daily in her fathers house for her hands in marriage. Therefore, she should carry on with her life because he loves her so much to see her go through this suffering with him. Though, her heart was shatterd, but she understood precisely the decision femi is taking, because already, all her friends are getting married and the pressure from her aged parents,being the first child is already on the increase and she doesn’t like the state of their displeasure. As much as she hates what femi has done, she hates to see her parents in a sorrow state just because of her condition. Even though she doesn’t want to leave this youngman, who is nw managing a recharge card business cemtre, femi has encouraged her to move on. Could this(his action) belove. Pls think through before posting comments. You could also share your stories and/or experiences on our inbox or our email rellationshipacademy101@yahoo.com